Today is the last day of the conference. Our time continues to be both very good and very challenging.
This morning Philbert Kalisa addressed us on the topic of "Reconciliation and Forgiveness."
Philbert is an ordained Anglican priest in Rwanda. He also began and directs a ministry called REACH (Reconciliation, Evangelism, and Christian Healing). Philbert spoke only a short time outlining some of what the ministry of REACH is doing. Any ministry done here is by necessity holistic: it addresses every aspect of people's needs. Of the many things they are doing, I was most touched by their ministry to women. There are many widows in Rwanda. Some are widows because their husbands were killed in the genocide. Other women are not widows in the classic sense: there husbands are not dead. Rather their husbands are in prison for their crimes. REACH has brought these two groups of women together.
As Philbert described this he stopped talking and instead brought up a panel to share stories. Judith, Agnes, Anastasia, and Alexander came forward to share. Celestine, another member of the REACH team, acted as translator. Please forgive me but I cannot remember with any confidence the names in the order of how these women shared. The first two women to share described being Tutsis at the time of the genocide and what they lost in terms of family and property. Again, it is hard to relate the devastation and power of these stories. After each of these women shared, then the third woman and the only man, Alexander, shared. Both of them are Hutus and confessed responsibility for their crimes. In fact I believe that Alexander was responsible for the death of Judith's husband (I will double-check that).
When REACH began to gather these widowed Hutu and Tutsi women together, their resentment and hatred for each gave them few options except for plotting and executing revenge. However, as they talked together in this space, they began to recognize their mutual pain and despair. By the grace of God and through the work of people like Philbert and Celestine they were given another possibility for their grief and rage: they chose forgiveness and reconciliation. Now they were sitting before us together sharing their story and challenging us by their lives. Reconciliation becomes more than a theoretical idea when you see victim and victimizer sitting together on the same stage openly talking of their loss and their crimes.
At the end of this part of the discussion, Philbert introduced one last member of their team: a Japanese man named Kazu Sasaki. Kazu lives and works in Rwanda with REACH. Kazu only talked for about five minutes, but part of his time was the telling of his story. Prior to coming to Rwanda, I believe Kazu was working for either a NGO, or some government related task force, around issues of development. In one conversation a Rwandan asked Kazu, "Where were you in 1994?" This was not just a question about geographical location. It was a question that could of been asked of any us: "Why weren't you paying attention or doing anything in 1994? Where were you?" The question cut him to the quick and the end result of it was his relocation to work for the healing of this place. While many of the talks about reconciliation thus far have come to us through the form of personal stories and some theological reflection, Kazu followed his brief story with a more academic reflection on the nature of forgiveness and reconciliation. It was very good. Unfortunately, he had to rush through it. I am going to download his presentation off his jump drive and will post it for downloading later (in fact, please check back on all the entries in the following weeks; as I have opportunity and bandwidth, I will add pictures, downloadable notes, and links to these posts to give greater contexts).
Our morning concluded with a Eucharistic worship service. Philbert and Steve Bonsey, an American Episcopal priest from Boston, presided over the service. It may have been the most significant part of our time together for me thus far. Every week at Jacob's Well we celebrate communion. It comes as the climax of our worship, following the sermon. I am always surprised and humbled by how the ministry of the Word and the ministry of the Table are so integrally related to one another. Talking all week about reconciliation, about confession, remembrance, forgiveness, truth-telling, peace, and being sent out as agents of the Christ, the reconciling God, was real in a way that I only have experienced a handful of times in my life (that is not to diminish any of the my previous experiences - it is only to say that at times God pours out his grace in such simultaneously transcendent and immanent ways that you are able to sense the manifest presence of God in this sacrament). Perhaps one of the most significant ways the message of reconciliation was incarnated in the service was in the passing of the peace: to look another human being in the eyes, to shake their hand or embrace and be embraced proclaiming, "The peace of the Lord be with you," and hear in reply, "And also with you," demonstrated that we are in fact one body - that the reconciling God is our host at this table and we are his guests. As he has embraced us, so we in turn embrace one another, not in spite of our difference, our diversity, and our pasts, but especially in the midst of them. On this day, our Eucharistic celebration became a manifestation of the stories we had just heard in the lives of Judith, Agnes, Anastasia, and Alexander.
I know that in the future, as we continue to allow the experience of what we have seen, heard, and felt, to sink more deeply into our beings, we will have to reckon with this in the context of our place: Jacob's Well, located in Kansas City, Missouri, in the United States of America.
This afternoon, our friend Edward Simiyu (the pastor of City Harvest in Nairobi and the man connecting Jacob's Well to the fresh water well project in Pokot) will facilitate a discussion about reconciliation in Kenya following the horrible post-election violence we witnessed this winter. I have talked to several Kenyans here and they are devastated and the wounds from the violence are open and raw. Following that Brian McLaren will give a talk called, "Pre-emptive Reconciliation." In other words, instead of always responding/reacting after the fact, how do we live and engage in such a way that short-circuits/defuses the powder kegs that we all are sitting on in our respective cultures? In other words, how is it that the church is prophetic?
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